Marriage
is..Friendship
חבר
châbar
to unite, join, bind
together, be joined, be coupled, be in league, heap up, have fellowship with, be
compact, be a charmer, make an ally of, be united, to join oneself, to pile up
words
In
Hebrew, our Father in Heaven teaches us that the act of joining together in
matrimony is the ultimate definition of friendship.
Just as the Salvation of the world is predicated on the concept of a marriage
proposal by the Prince of Peace being accepted by His betrothed Bride; so the
lasting marriage depends on a deep friendship according to the definition of
friendship in scripture.
The ways of man
cannot prepare people for marriage, nor can those ways sustain a covenant of
marriage. The binding between the two people begins long before the ceremony of
the wedding and, if done in the Ways of Yehovah, it will last a lifetime on this
earth.
The friendship of
marriage requires that many carefully selected words be exchanged in true
fellowship. Through a series of deep exchanges the couple becomes united and
truly enjoined as allies for each other. This is modeled for us by the
scriptures. This document is prepared to ensure the protection, prosperity
and well-being of the bride. It is a critical foundation for any marriage
The Word of Adonai is essentially a marriage contract, a Ketubah,
to be read, agreed and accepted by the betrothed of Yeshua.
119:57
ח
(Het)
Adonai, I say that my task is to observe your words. I beg your favor
with my whole heart; show pity to me, in keeping with your promise. I
thought about my ways and turned my feet toward your instruction. I hurry, I
don't delay, to observe your mitzvot.
Even when the cords of the
wicked close around me, I don't forget your Torah. At midnight I rise to
give you thanks because of your righteous rulings. I am a friend of all
who fear you, of those who observe your precepts. The earth, Adonai, is full of
your grace; teach me your laws.
Psalm 119:57-64
I was glad when they said to
me, "The house of Adonai! Let's go!"
Our feet were already
standing at your gates, Yerushalayim.
Yerushalayim, built as a
city fostering friendship and unity. The tribes have gone up there,
the tribes of Adonai, as a
witness to Isra'el, to give thanks to the name of Adonai.
For there the thrones of
justice were set up, the thrones of the house of David. Pray for shalom in
Yerushalayim; may those who love you prosper. May shalom be within your
ramparts, prosperity in your palaces. For the sake of my family and friends,
I say, "Shalom be within you!" For the sake of the house of Adonai our God, I
will seek your well-being
Psalm 122:1-9
Let brotherly friendship
continue; but don't forget to be friendly to outsiders; for in so doing, some
people, without knowing it, have entertained angels.
Hebrews 13:1-2
The need for this
bond is due to the persistent and destructive blows that the enemy will hurl at
any couple daring to make a covenant of love. The couple, once united, will
become a living testimony of the strength and faithfulness of Adonai. The enemy
will not tolerate this without a fight.
A friend shows his
friendship at all times — it is for adversity that [such] a brother
is born.
Proverbs 17:17
QUESTIONS
• Class 21:
Friendship: Part 1
In our modern world, the word
“friend” has a very broad meaning that is very different than the Scriptural
definition of “friend”. People today often refer to others as “friends”, but
when we observe these different people, we see that the character of those
relationships varies widely. My “friend at work” has a completely different
relationship than “my friend at congregation”. “My tennis buddy” is a “friend”
in a very different way than my “friend at the community center”.
Biblical elements of true friendship: YHVH’s idea of friend has these essential
elements:
Commitment:
investing energy, effort, and thoughts to maintain the friendship
Time: friendship
develops and grows over long lengths of time…years...decades…a lifetime.
“Friendship” that lasts only months or just a season, was never a friendship at
all…just an acquaintance or a co-worker.
Loyalty: true
friendship is TESTED, but never fails. Adversity GROWS the friendship –
adversity does not END or DESTROY true friendship.
• According to this list of elements, evaluate the condition of your friendship
with Yeshua.
• According to this list of elements, evaluate the condition of your friendship
with your betrothed or your spouse.
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